First of all, the old HAPPILY EVER AFTER ending, yup.. It's overrated... And as a matter of fact, it cannot be applied and it's not relevant in the real world...
Secondly, you will find your true love someday... Mark my words hun, "YOU WILL!!!" :)
Thirdly, pushing the blame to someone is actually, believe it or not, it's imprinted in all of us... It's human nature... I'm not saying that you did wrong for concluding that it's his fault and also, at the same time, i did not say that he's wrong for concluding that it's your fault... But IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO (you should know this, right??)... Although if you tell me that you do not know how to tango, fine!! Learn!! Learn together... After every arguments / misunderstandings, always find an initiative to solve it on that day itself... Never drag the problem because it could only gets worst... TRUST ME... I have been there and i really hate that feeling... It suffocates me...
Fourthly, be comfortable with your partner... Know his habits, the way he speaks and understanding his body language... It could actually minimize the arguments and misunderstandings...
Last but not least, spend more time together.... Understand each other more... No time?? FIND TIME!!! No agenda?? SURPRISE EACH OTHER!!! For me, not everything has to be planned out when it comes to spending some quality time and just plain sweet talking to each other... Have dinner together more often... Go for trips and just stay in the hotel room plain cuddling and chit chatting...
Therefore, it really takes two to build a good and healthy relationship... We'll talk more when we meet ya.... Maybe we'll try smoking again at Times Square's Starbucks behind Jeff's back... Hehehehe... (^-^)
Can't wait to see you soon.... *hugs*
Love forever and for always,
♥Jessica♥
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